Remembrance: Alan's Story

Alan enlisted in the British Army at the age of 15 in 1965. He served with the Royal Military Police before joining the regular Army in 1967, and completed 22 years of military service before leaving in 1989. He joined the Chelsea Pensioners in January 2025, finding a renewed sense of community and purpose. 

“As a veteran you have friendship and camaraderie, but particularly as a Chelsea Pensioner, these aspects really come to the fore,” Alan explains. “I think most people that have been in the Army for any length of time, have a certain amount of self-discipline and are aware of things that are going on around them, no matter what age they are.” 

Alan describes the camaraderie he missed after leaving the Army. “We had a great social life. People got on and people watched your back. And not just those that were serving, but their families as well – there was a lot going on to keep the family entertained.” Following his Army career, he joined HM Prison Service and served for nearly two decades, before retiring due to his wife’s illness. Then, life changed dramatically after his wife Carol passed away, and he spent years living alone in a touring caravan. “Apart from doing my shopping, I'd sit there for three weeks on the campsite, because it's just no fun in going out.”  

Family visits offered only temporary relief. “I was married for 46 years, and I have two sons and grandchildren. Most of the time, I’m just travelling around. The fun comes out of touring when you're on your own. I don’t visit places often.” 

Joining the Royal Hospital Chelsea transformed his life. “I applied to be a Chelsea Pensioner last year and arrived here in January 2025. I haven't looked back, it's been great.” Alan’s days are now filled with activities, events and volunteering.  

The Royal Hospital has not only provided social connection but has improved Alan’s wellbeing too. “My mental health was not good before. I was 90 percent on my own and now that’s changed. Last year I was verging on 16 stone. I'm now 14 and a half. That’s worked because I've been to the gym. Being here has changed my life for the better.” 

Volunteering through the Chelsea Pensioners Veterans’ Outreach programme has also given him a renewed sense of purpose. “We offer a cup of tea and a friendly chat in a familiar environment. We also have service providers, the DWP, Royal British Legion, Help for Heroes – these are the people that can advise on mental health issues, pensions, housing. These veterans’ clubs help bring people together and give you a sense of belonging.” 

Alan emphasises the importance of this support for veterans returning from modern conflicts. “Soldiers, sailors and people that are involved in these things are coming back with terrible stories of things they've seen, and it’s really played on their minds. The comradeship helps. Coming in, talking to veterans through the outreach programme is beneficial. We just listen.” 

For Alan, the scarlet coat is a symbol of pride, purpose and lifelong service. “It’s about being part of something bigger. Wearing it represents the connection to all veterans, past and present, and the ongoing support the Royal Hospital Chelsea provides.” 

As the nation pauses for Remembrance, Alan’s story reflects the Royal Hospital Chelsea’s mission: giving veterans a home, a community, and a renewed sense of dignity and belonging. “Being here reminds me of past times, meeting old Army friends and connecting with veterans from all walks of life. This is long term for me. I’m going to make the most of it now.”